A dude I follow on twitter @cuffsthelegend is always talking about thirsty chicks on what he dubs #thirstythursday. I mean we've all had that person who's interested in us that we'd label a tad bit parched. It could be that chick/dude that KEEPS calling even though you clearly aren't interested. But what about those less obvious situations. What if you're the thirsty person and you don't even know it. Shoot that could probably be me!! Yikes!
It's silly really. The idea that when you like someone you're supposed to pretend like you're not that interested. Reminds me of undergrad when people were trying to get down with certain greek orgs. The whole thing was supposed to be a secret. That was so dumb to me, who gives a shit if such and so wants to be a delta?!? So girls spent 1.5 years or more walking on eggshells trying to impress some wenches who probably weren't gonna accept them anyway for some of the dumbest reasons, like telling someone they wanted to be in their org. But let's get back to dating...Let's say you meet someone and you guys really hit it off and you enjoy spending time with that person, why shouldn't you talk to them as much as you want? Of course there's going overboard, like calling everyday 5 times a day, 3 of which are while you KNOW they're at work. But I don't think there's any harm in contacting someone you like everyday especially if they're receptive to your conversations.
Then there's those less clear situations, when you think someone likes you too, but every time you want to hang out or go on a date, they never have the time or they don't return your calls. Do you keep trying? There's something to be said about persistence right? Personally, I believe in trying until you get tired, or until you get played. But we all have our pride and nobody likes rejection, so just keep going until your pride tells you you're being a fool. No point in chasing someone who's not trying to be caught (or at least not by you). So I guess if you continue past that point where that's clear, then you're being thirsty. Or when you get to the point where you chasing someone so hard that you're embarrassing yourself, you know when you all over them in the club and they keep stiff arming you. Or be all hugged up with another cat right in your face and you're STILL trying to be all in their face to holler. That ladies and gentleman is dehydration of epic levels. So if you're anything like me...walk away when somebody's not giving you the time of day. Swallow your pride. If they realize what they could be missing out on, maybe they'll hit you up. Otherwise go out there and