I get tired of chicks saying stuff like "my chicks bad" or "we the flyest" or some other proclamation of how fly/fine/sexy they are. Often times when I see pics of these girls i'm stunned. I know I could probably use Lasik surgery but I'm not THAT blind to where I can't see that these chicks are often far from tight. Now I know you aren't supposed to to call folks ugly, so I won't say they're ugly. I'll just say they're not tight to me. If it's a whole clique of girls i'm not attracted to I just attribute their braggadocio to delusions. But a lot of times I'll see a crew of girls where one of em is fly and the rest well...are not.
I don't understand it. Maybe it's because I don't think I have any friends that people would flat out call ugly. But if I did i'm not gonna be tryna gas em up when i know I don't think they're good looking. But another thing to consider is why really attractive girls like to kick it with ugmos. Do they think it makes their relative beauty value go up? I know it wouldn't be kind to tell your homegirl she's barely a rusty nickel but let's not go lying to her saying she's a dime.
But then that leads me to this whole 1 to 10 ranking system. Everybody wants to be a 10 and thr reality is that everybody can't be that attractive. If you were to average the numbers 1-10 it'd be a 5.5. There's nothing wrong with being a 5.5. This leads me to a conversation I was having with a friend of mine. She was complaining that the chicks in the likes of King magazine
Now...I don't know if this applies to dudes or not cuz i've never heard of dudes talking about being a dime...well at least not heterosexual dudes. But if your boy's self perception is outta wack, tell em to get his ish together and be real.
I'm sure my feminist friends will start flapping their e-gums about personality, beatuy standards and blah blah blah but truthfully I can't tell your personality from across the room. How many times did an ugly dude's personality get ya cooch wet? I'd say .5 times out of 10 lol.